Self-Compassion

Quiet Your Inner Judge: 3 Steps to Reclaim Time and Confidence

Quiet Your Inner Judge: 3 Steps to Reclaim Time and Confidence
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Women entrepreneurs wear many hats: business owners, partners, friends, and more. With so many roles, it’s no wonder these responsibilities’ weight can sometimes feel overwhelming. But an additional layer often complicates things: our inner critic. That nagging voice questions your every move and can shake your confidence. It’s time to regain control, build confidence, and create more time for what truly matters. Let’s explore three practical ways to quiet that inner critic and reclaim your time and confidence.
 

Mindful Reflection: Tune In and Boost Your Confidence

The inner judge is sneaky, often draining our confidence instead of building it. The first step to quieting this voice is simply recognizing it. Take a few minutes each day to tune into your thoughts. You don’t need a fancy meditation setup—find a quiet spot and breathe. Notice the thoughts that arise. Are they supporting your confidence or undermining it? This practice of mindful reflection helps you identify and separate yourself from the critical voice, giving you the power to strengthen your true self.
 

Setting Boundaries: Protect Your Time and Energy

We often feel compelled to do it all, saying yes to every opportunity and meeting every expectation. But saying yes to everything can quickly lead to burnout and erode confidence. It’s crucial to set boundaries and prioritize your time and energy.
Start by identifying what truly matters to you most. What are your non-negotiables? What values guide your life? Knowing your priorities makes it easier to say no to things that don’t align with them. Remember, declining projects or invitations that don’t serve your goals is okay. By setting boundaries, you free up time for the things that truly matter to you, whether it’s growing your business, spending quality time with people you love, or simply taking time for yourself.
 

Practice Self-Compassion: Cultivate Confidence from Within

One of the most effective ways to silence the inner critic and boost your confidence is through self-compassion. It’s about being kind to yourself, especially when things don’t go as planned. We all have moments where we fall short of our expectations. The key is to treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding you’d offer a friend.
Instead of harshly criticizing yourself for mistakes, acknowledge your efforts and learn from the experience. This shift in mindset not only quiets the inner critic but also builds resilience. When you’re kind to yourself, you’re more likely to recover quickly and continue confidently moving forward.
 

Embrace a Confident, Time-Rich Self

Quieting your inner judge isn’t about shutting down a part of you; it’s about nurturing a kinder, more supportive relationship with yourself. By practicing mindful reflection, setting boundaries, and embracing self-compassion, you can transform your inner dialogue, reclaim your time, and build lasting confidence.

Remember, you’re not alone on this journey. Many women entrepreneurs face similar challenges, and we can overcome them together. Let’s commit to creating more time for the things that bring us joy and fulfillment. Here’s to living a confident, authentic, and time-rich life—because you deserve nothing less



Hi, I'm Lisa

I guide highly sensitive women ready to put down over-giving, find clarity within the overwhelm, and lead their life and business from deep inner alignment, where every choice feels like coming home.

My work grew from experience, not theory. After years in healthcare and running a busy wellness practice, I found myself saying yes to everything until the hustle caught up with me. What looked like failure became my greatest teacher, shaping how I guide others today.

As a Positive Psychology Master Coach, StressMaster Associate, and former Occupational Therapist and Licensed Massage Therapist, I bring more than two decades of experience in health and mindset to my coaching. I teach women to protect their energy, strengthen boundaries, and align their work with what truly matters.

If you are ready to grow your business without losing yourself in the process, you are in the right place. You will find insights, practical tools, and personal reflections in my blog, Rooted and Rising—a space devoted to helping women create sustainable success from a place of calm strength.



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